Why are some people depressed so often? (I don’t mean clinical depression.) I think there’s one reason why people show emotions of sorrow… they want others to notice. If they didn’t want others to know, they’d act as they normally do.
Being depressed would be an example of something not beneficial, until one adds in the others who notice. Showing sadness allows others to notice, so they can comfort the sad person. That’s the real reason, at least on a subconscious level. Even if they say they don’t want others to know, they actually do. The friend that probes despite this shows greater loyalty, making the depressed person happier.
This is a cynical view, but it makes sense. Showing sadness would seem a weakness, simply making them easier prey, and dropping their status on the social ladder. However, since humans are social, those who have their solace comforted are better off, making the physical displays a benefit.
Shawn –
Aside from your entry sounding like a fuckin’ essay, *lol, its okay, we honors people have tendancies to do so ^_^* I thought it was good. However, being depressed is not all about showing emotion. It does make sense when you try to explain it to your readers, but there is a much more deeper, personal feeling going on inside the person. Did you know that not all people wish to share their sorrows? Even if one were depressed, they may have trouble showing it, and in result, gives up hyperactive activity *…hyperactive activity…?…*shakes head* anyways…*. Also, showing saddness for others to notice is not always depression related. Some may have attention issues, you know, not feeling wanted, or appreciated so they express themselves in a different way. I know because thats what I did in the group with you guys a few years ago…I of course wasn’t sad or anything (or tried to show it if I secretly was), I was putting on an act that I was really ditzy and dumb, and in doing so, put myself down for others to step on. That isn’t neccisarliy depression, Shawn. Its just a means of getting attention for those who feel attention deprived.
Theres more than one perspective of course, and I must say, the way you explain it DOES make sense. However…before you write stuff like that, try to think in a different perspective and more open-minded. You’re a really great writer Shawn, and keep up the good work. We all miss you at Logan…
*~Crissy~*